Friday, October 11, 2013

Don't Judge Unless You Are In It..

Yesterday I was reading my trusty AM paper and in it was an article about Khloe K./Lamar and the title read, "Khloe: Committed to love, life with Lamar?" Whether you keep up with the Kardashian's or not I'm pretty sure you have heard about the unfortunate situation that has taken place in their marriage.  Although the couple has gone through hell with the drug jokes and opinions due to Lamar's drug use and cheating rumors, Khloe has decided or at least it seems she has decided to try and ride this thing out with her hubs. Take a look at the below words from her Twitter page which gave me the inspiration to write this post.

"The deepest love is tough to explain and understand.  Not all scars can be seen and not all love can be explained. The deepest love is also the hardest to express. If I love you it's a deep forever love. Ride to the end, family/friend. It's simply called love. I take it seriously. Don't judge unless you are in it."

I agree with Khloe 110% and those who have a loved and has been through something similar probably feel the same as well.  Now, don't get it confused, I don't condone cheating or hardcore heavy drug use but every situation is different and it takes a strong and compassionate person to ride to the end of it all. They are the only ones who will understand why they are doing so and at the end of the day that is all that matters. When you see someone you truly love falling apart, all you want to do is help.  Yes, your scared, hurt and asking yourself why me but you may just decide to ride to the end and that's okay. 

I always believe you never know what is going on behind someones closed doors and you never know what a person is going through that has led them down to a path of destruction. Only the people in the situation know what the relationship is worth and only they can make the decision of what to do next.

That's what makes this situation with Khloe so interesting, particularly because she is doing what most would do, except she is doing it in the public eye which leaves room for people to judge.  What makes it even more interesting is that those same people who are judging and making fun are the same people who would do the same for the ones they love.

~Positively Jewls

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