Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Can You Really Become True Friends With A Frenemy???

Yes, I am taking it back to the two frenemies who showed us what two frenemies really were to each other and for those of you who are wondering those characters are Brenda and Kelly from the original Beverly Hills 90210.  Just as a side note, this show was the business. 

Moving on, frenemies like these two not only exist on TV but in real life as well, just take a look at JWoww and Sammi of Jersey Shore. On both shows both sets of women went from being friends, to hating each other, to being friends again. This makes me wonder is it really possible to go back to being friends with someone after you were hardcore enemies or is the friendship over for good?

We have all been down that rode where we were once friends with someone maybe even best friends and something went down in that relationship where you suddenly in the blink of an eye became enemies.  Maybe it was over a guy, gossip, name calling but whatever it was you were ready to scratch each other's eyes out.  Now time has passed and although you were enemies towards one another you decide to try the friendship thing again.  It may go good for a while but before you know it you are ready to scratch each other's eyes out again or are you?

I ran into this situation myself where I stopped being friends with someone due to her gossiping and extreme flirting with my boyfriends, so I kindly decided this person was cut off from being my friend.  I could have went the tare her hair out route but I didn't instead I just ceased all contact.  Then recently I hear from a family friend that this frenemy of mine wants me to give her call so we can hang out. WTH? Yes, that is what I asked myself and I was smart enough not to call her because I refused to go down that same disastrous road again. 

For those of you who have friends that use to be enemies do you really see the friendship working now that the smoke has cleared? Are you just going by the, "keep your friends close but your enemies closer" motto?

Thank you so much for reading and please remember to leave your thoughts and comments below.

~Positively Jewls

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